GAWKING

Since gawking at women in public can easily lead to gawking in private, a man must check himself before a marital affair or addiction to porn ruins his life—“for anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery in his heart”. 

But the best gift a man can give to his relationally-wired wife is himself. His continious attention. And talk about a win-win, for it’ll free her to become generous in return . Poet Kahil Gibran once wrote: “You give but little when you give of your possessions; it is when you give of yourself that you truly live.”

1 Peter 3:7 says a man is to live with his wife “according to knowledge,”which means to know her, and the only way that can happen is to limit distractions.