MARRIAGE

Man and woman are equal as an equal halves of an apple. Whatever is right for one side is also right for the other side as well. There is no discrimination but when marriages are accomplished, wedding is signed on the sky above all, and, man takes also the whole responsibility of his wife's actions under the sky.

The sides have different characteristics but this is to complete each other. The main features are the same. Marriages must be pure as it is a remarkable oppurtunity for self-development of people longing for Truth. A pure marriage is vital in striving for attai ance. By this, they will burden significantly their destinies. So, cognize the pure marriage, for it has great power.


REJOICING IN MARRIAGE

Each spouse has an exclusive right to the others’ sexuality. “Ownership” might seem like a radical word but this isn’t a license for abuse, but it does mean that neither the husband nor the wife has autonomous control over their bodies. So, because your body belongs to your spouse, your sin affects them, even if they don’t know about it. The marital union is a spiritual, mysterious thing. That means to join yourself to another is to sin against your wife or husband.

So when a man wants sex and only sex, his wife feels used—like an appliance—because he only sees her as having one function. But the husband who “renders to his wife the affection due her” is a man who knows how to make his wife feel beautiful.

It’s important that a husband shows affection for his wife now, fit or not. And soon he’ll see her body as the most alluring in all the land, and will“rejoice in the wife of his youth”.

Sure, every woman has something beautiful to offer the world, a beauty for all to see. But within marriage, a woman feels like one-in-a-million when her husband thinks this of her: “My dove, my perfect one, is unique”. 

Husband and wife lusting & flirting with others make his or her spouse feel 'less than', ashamed and embarrassed. When we married our spouses, they became our only ‘type’ ; you are your husband’s and he is yours. Talking about other men/women or hinting at the attractiveness of other men/women is degrading and disrespectful to our husbands/wifes and creates insecurity in their hearts.